7 Things You Shouldn’t Tell Your New Boyfriend

 

1.”I’ve had sex with ___ other men”.

Don’t give numbers! It doesn’t matter how progressive your views are on sex, few guys want to think about their girlfriend having sex with other men. It might be an appropriate conversation further down the line, but when it’s new…just let it be new.

 

2.”I’ve been planning my dream wedding since I was ten.”

While you’re seeing white lace all he’ll be seeing is red flags.

 

3.”I can’t wait to be a mom.”

Some women are really excited to become mothers and there’s nothing wrong with that. But like the “wedding talk”, bringing this up too soon can raise some red flags. If you’re the one, he’ll get there.

 

4.”I cheated on my last boyfriend.”

If that’s your situation, keep it to yourself. Trust is an important building block of any relationship. Even just telling him could make him feel like you’re warning him.

 

5.”I’m not like those other girls. I’m laid back about relationships.”

Some women really believe this about themselves until the moment comes when they’re not laid back anymore…and that moment will always come in any passionate relationship. Don’t set up false expectations, just take things as they come.

 

6.”Your friends are dumb.”

Bros before hoes.

 

7.”Your ex-girlfriend is a total bitch.”

Even if it’s true, in new relationship that will only sound petty and vindictive.

Kira Allen